The Most Important Love You’ll Ever Have

Bella Breakdown There is nothing quite like the feeling of being in love. Love is uplifting and sometimes all consuming. We truly do crazy things for love. We also lose love, and it deeply deeply hurts. Sometimes we wonder where that love goes, and what kind of person will we love next? There is one relationship, though, where the love should never go away. That is the relationship you have with yourself. You may find yourself to be one of those people that always has to be in love. So much so, that you never give any time to...

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Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

Bella Breakdown Breaking up with someone, or getting dumped is a full range of terrible emotions. It’s sad, it’s awkward, painful, and can even be really anger-filled. Breaking up today, in 2018 specifically, may leave you feeling like you can never quite get away from that person. More often than not, when you’ve gotten into a relationship with someone you have added them on some, if not all, forms of social media. That means, if you don’t go completely dark on them after the breakup, you’re probably seeing every update they have on a constant basis. That can be...

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It’s Not You It’s Me

Bella Breakdown If our relationships haven’t been working out, we can’t help but think that we keep picking the wrong people. Hate to break it to you, you are likely the problem in all of your relationships. It’s important to remember that the common denominator in every bad relationship you’ve had is, well, you. Sure, the people you’ve been with might be mean, selfish, or manipulative, but you are the one who keeps picking them. When you do not recognize your relationship patterns, you can’t help but repeat them. Instead of getting out at the first red flag, you...

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Packing Like a Professional

Bella Breakdown I don’t know about you, but I tend to be an awful packer whenever I have to travel anywhere. If I leave for 3 days, I’m packing for almost two weeks. If I have to go somewhere for a month, I seem to never have enough! Everytime I have to pack or re-pack I end up jamming stuff into my suitcase until it’s bursting at the seams. Also, why do I never pack enough underwear? When I’m packing to go somewhere, I don’t even consider purchases I’ll be making while on the trip. Clearly, my brain space...

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Love, Conflict, And How To Deal

Bella Breakdown No two people can get along perfectly well, that’s just a fact. When we’re in a relationship, it’s almost inevitable that at one point or another there will be conflict. It’s how we deal with that conflict that essentially makes or breaks the relationship. It’s important to remember that you and your partner are two completely different people. You may have similarities, but you are different in the sense that your family lives, past relationships, social experiences, and communication skills don’t always align. Taking this into consideration, it’s important to discuss with your partner what kinds of...

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