The Mathematics Of Love

Bella Breakdown Sometimes we think that meeting our one true love is magical, mystical, and something derived straight from the good of the universe itself. Well it might be a lot simpler than that. Just like everything else that gets ruined by math, love might simply come down to a numbers game. That’s right, picking your perfect partner is mathematical and scientific, and I guess a little emotional too… but only out of necessity. Experts say that when it comes to dating, use the first 37% of the people you’ve dated as practice individuals. That’s right, they’re just for...

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Stuck In Breakup Limbo

Bella Breakdown Okay so we all know about the on and off relationship. But what about being stuck in breakup limbo? It’s that thing where you are in a relationship that frankly isn’t going all that well, and you are mulling over whether or not you’re going to pull the plug on this relationship. A lot of times this limbo happens when you are living with someone. This is usually because you feel as though you have too much to lose by leaving them. What if you have pets together, you’ve bought furniture, and all of this financial entanglement....

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Good Relationship Habits To Start Now

Bella Breakdown Habits are hard to break, this is true for both good and bad habits. So it is important, especially in relationships, to create good habits. Marriage Counselors suggests developing this good habits to make your way to a successful relationship. 1. Get Good Sleep Just like everything else, if you’re exhausted, you’re not at your best and you’re likely irritated. You will take this behavior out on your partner. So make it a point to get good sleep. 2. Ask For What You Want Do this, but don’t blame your partner for not getting it. You need...

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Millennials Don’t Do Divorce

Bella Breakdown Who knew an entire generation that is relatively dependent on meeting their future spouse on a dating app where you swipe on a picture, would be the generation that is actually lowering the divorce rate? Sorry Baby Boomers and Gen Xers… we can’t help that we sort of dominate in the love department. Divorce rates have dropped by almost 20 percent. So what is it that makes millennials more successful in marriage than the generations before them? Well, it is mainly the fact that millennials are waiting until they are older to get married. They are also...

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Rules To Avoiding A Toxic Relationship

Bella Breakdown I remember in my first relationship feeling as though my partner’s jealous and controlling behavior was a sign of love, even if my intuition was telling me to run at every second. You might have found yourself in multiple toxic relationships. They do come in different packages, and don’t always look the same. So it is important to know some ground rules so you can avoid getting yourself into a toxic relationship. 1. If you are unhappy, leave. That nagging feeling that all of the bad is outweighing the good is not going to go away. So...

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