Is Your Partner Using You?

Bella Breakdown There are a lot of bad things someone could do to you in a relationship. Being used by a partner is really damaging to both the relationship and yourself. If a relationship is one sided, there is no way it is going to last very long. One person cannot carry the weight, nor can one person love both people enough for the two of them. So how can you tell if you are being used in your relationship? Well, typically they seem to always need to be rescued. You are constantly picking them up, or covering for...

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When An Ex Is Still In The Picture

Bella Breakdown The question whether you can you still be friends with an ex has always been a controversial one. But what about, “can you still care about your ex?” You might have found yourself in a relationship where either yours or your partner’s ex is still in the picture in an emotional way. This can be a really hard thing to deal with. If you are the one whose partner is still in contact with or somehow taking care of an ex, it can be really difficult for you to deal with. And what if it’s your ex...

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Trouble Finding True Love? This Might Be Why

Bella Breakdown You may have found yourself in a slue of bad relationships, or just simply a state of singleness. You might think to yourself, especially after a few glasses of wine, “where oh where is my one true love?”. Okay, so it probably isn’t that dramatic, but thinking about the fact that you haven’t found that really great love can be awfully discouraging. So what is it exactly that is keeping you from finding your true love? Well it’s probably you who is keeping yourself from finding love. According to a study, 65% of adults believe that it...

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How The Ghosts Of Your Past Impacts Your Relationships

Bella Breakdown In an ideal world we would be in one relationship that was perfect, forever, and never risk our souls and hearts being damaged by another human being. Alas, that is an ideal world and unfortunately not the world of love and heartbreak we live in. Everyone you meet comes with a little bit of baggage, or a lot of baggage unfortunately, but it is how we unpack that baggage that determines how we will act in the next relationship. So, what are the signs that you are letting your past relationships baggage affect your new relationship? 1....

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