Fans Of Netflix’s “You” Are Romanticizing Dangerous Behavior, What Does It Mean?

Bella Breakdown Netflix is on a roll lately. Between the Marie Kondo specials, the hypnotic new Black Mirror special and the award winning film, “Roma,” there’s a lot of entertainment to soak up. Recently, I just started watching the thriller “You,” starring Penn Badgley as a stalker obsessed with a girl he runs into in New York City. I won’t spoil anything, but things get… intense, and his controlling, vindictive behavior is hard to watch. However, I have an even bigger problem with how some fans are reacting to what they see. Some are romanticizing Badgley’s character, defending some...

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Arie And Lauren’s Twilight Inspired Wedding Will Give You Major Inspiration

Bella Breakdown Is it just me, or has anyone else dreamed of replicating Bella and Edward’s epic wedding from Breaking Dawn? Everything from the dress to the flowers was picture perfect, so it’s no wonder that brides everywhere started trying to achieve their own Bella look. Now, unfortunately we can’t replicate the groom, but season 22 Bachelor contestants Arlie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham were about as close to perfection as you can get. “Everything that I imagined, it was that and 10 times better,” Burnham, 27, told Us Weekly. The wedding took place at Haiku Mill on Maui,...

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You Shouldn’t Rely On Your Partner For Everything

Bella Breakdown It can be easy to lean on our SOs for a lot of things. They make us feel safe, loved, warm, and in a lot of instances they can provide an escape from some harsh realities like loneliness. However, if you’re relying on your partner too much, it can be a detriment to both you and your relationship. “A healthy, stable relationship has an interplay between independence and interdependence, between ‘me’ and ‘us,'” relationship therapist Rhonda Milrad, LCSW, told Bustle. “Your partner can’t provide all the things that you need, and if you put them in the...

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How To Survive Valentine’s Day If You’re Newly Single

Bella Breakdown Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and if you’ve just gone through a breakup, or are maybe experiencing some time apart from your SO, it can be a difficult holiday to get through on your own. Rather than push it off until the last minute, it’s time to start your V-day prep now, so when the big day rolls around, you’re feeling powerful and inspired. 1. It’s Okay to Mourn Embrace your feelings, don’t push them away. It’s okay to feel sad, lonely, broken, whatever it may be. In fact, you can channel those feelings and...

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Chris Pratt And Katherine Schwarzenegger Announced Their Engagement In The Cutest Way

Bella Breakdown Just last week we wrote about the inspirational parenting dynamic between Chris Pratt and ex-wife, Anna Faris. The two have an adorable five-year-old son, Jack, who will now be welcoming a step mother to the family. Yes, Pratt and girlfriend of less than a year, Katherine Schwarzenegger, announced their engagement in the perfect, low-key way. An Instagram post of course! Much of the couple’s relationship has been private, so the sweet photo and caption show a very tender, sweet moment in their lives. “Sweet Katherine, so happy you said yes!” Pratt wrote. “I’m thrilled to be marrying...

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