Breakups Down To A Science

Bella Breakdown It’s the day after you’ve been dumped. You are probably wondering how in the world you are going to get over this? You might spend time with friends, drink too much, or you might just eat or not eat. You might lie in bed all day. You might tear up pictures and every memory of them. And you’re probably going to cry. That’s pretty natural. But there is actually a scientific way to get over your breakup somewhat quickly and effectively. Scientists asked certain people to view their ex in a negative light. They wanted the individuals...

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Careful, You Might Catch Divorce

It’s cold and flu season again. Stock up on soup, orange juice, tea, and plenty of water. Colds & flus are highly contagious. But, did you ever think matters of the heart could be contagious too? According to studies at Harvard, Brown, and UC San Diego divorce is apparently contagious as well. How exactly could that be? Studies show that 70% of couples whose friends get divorced end up getting divorced as well. It doesn’t stop there. If a friend of a friend gets divorced, that couple is 33% more likely to get divorced as well. That is somewhat...

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Is Your Partner Emotionally Available?

Bella Breakdown You might have heard this term a lot, “emotional availability” in regards to being in a relationship with someone. There are a number of problems that can occur if you are with someone who is not emotionally available. Emotionally unavailable people are likely to be the kind of people who cannot give you what you want emotionally. So, how can you tell if your partner is emotionally unavailable? 1. Feelings They have a lot of trouble telling you how they feel. Sure, it is difficult to put your heart on the line with someone. However, even if...

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Getting Over A Breakup Like A Star

Bella Breakdown Whenever I have gone through a breakup, I usually handle it in all of the ways you shouldn’t. I either eat too much or not at all. I get drunk and send texts I definitely regret. I cry to the point of dehydration. Breakups never seem to look great on me. Somehow though, celebrities have mastered the art of the break up. They make their heartbreaks look so good, it make me want to get broken up with again just so I can do what they do. Celebrities like Kourtney Kardashian don’t let jerks get to her....

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Coworker: Friend or No?

Bella Breakdown In any team oriented work environment, you are required to interact with your coworkers. You will inevitably find out who you do and do not get along with at you job. But can an actual friendship develop with the coworkers you do like? Well studies have shown that even if you think your coworker is your friend, they might not think the same as you. 50% of workers said that they did not consider their coworkers as friends. There is a good percentage within that number that does not feel comfortable discussing their personal lives with their...

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