Get Over A Crush With These Pointers

Bella Breakdown Having a crush can lead to new-found love, or results in unrequited love. Getting over a crush can be hard, but these pointers can help you get over your crush. Unfollowing them on social media can help you to think of them less and is less likely for them to pop up on your feed. This will also help you to think about them less and focus on your friends more. If your crush lives near you or you see them out a lot, think of ways to avoid seeing them. This will give you the opportunity...

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This Is The Right Way To Reject Someone You’re Dating

Bella Breakdown The dating game is tiresome and tedious. We’ve all been in situations where the date just isn’t going well, or it’s just time to cut the person loose and move on. Getting rejected can be just as hard as dishing out the rejection, so if you’re facing a situation where you need to have an honest conversation and cut the ties, there’s definitely a right way to go about it. “Rejection can be difficult for those who are doing the rejecting and those who are experiencing the rejecting,” licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Molly Giorgio, told Bustle. “However,...

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Was It Just a Fight? Or Is The Relationship Over?

Bella Breakdown Fighting is a natural part of any relationship. In fact, it’s healthy to have disagreements occasionally and to talk about them rationally with your partner. Maybe the disagreement ends up with some raised voices and sulking. We’ve all been there and most of the time, these arguments can be fixed with an honest and open conversation. But what if it was something more? There’s certainly a line between a fight and an emotionally or physically abusive encounter, and it’s important to consider all the factors involved when reflecting on the argument. “Was the fight a disagreement where...

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More People Are Choosing The Single Life, And It’s Great

Bella Breakdown More and more, people are embracing the benefits of a single life, and choosing to push marriage and family life further into the future, or maybe even calling it off all together. Millennials especially are putting their careers, travel and friends before relationships, and with the help of dating apps, they can still enjoy the company of a partner or date, without the full commitment. So why do so many women feel pressured to find a partner and settle down? Much of it stems from the influence of older generations, i.e. when your mother bugs you about...

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Fans Of Netflix’s “You” Are Romanticizing Dangerous Behavior, What Does It Mean?

Bella Breakdown Netflix is on a roll lately. Between the Marie Kondo specials, the hypnotic new Black Mirror special and the award winning film, “Roma,” there’s a lot of entertainment to soak up. Recently, I just started watching the thriller “You,” starring Penn Badgley as a stalker obsessed with a girl he runs into in New York City. I won’t spoil anything, but things get… intense, and his controlling, vindictive behavior is hard to watch. However, I have an even bigger problem with how some fans are reacting to what they see. Some are romanticizing Badgley’s character, defending some...

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