The Mathematics Of Love

Bella Breakdown Sometimes we think that meeting our one true love is magical, mystical, and something derived straight from the good of the universe itself. Well it might be a lot simpler than that. Just like everything else that gets ruined by math, love might simply come down to a numbers game. That’s right, picking your perfect partner is mathematical and scientific, and I guess a little emotional too… but only out of necessity. Experts say that when it comes to dating, use the first 37% of the people you’ve dated as practice individuals. That’s right, they’re just for...

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Stuck In Breakup Limbo

Bella Breakdown Okay so we all know about the on and off relationship. But what about being stuck in breakup limbo? It’s that thing where you are in a relationship that frankly isn’t going all that well, and you are mulling over whether or not you’re going to pull the plug on this relationship. A lot of times this limbo happens when you are living with someone. This is usually because you feel as though you have too much to lose by leaving them. What if you have pets together, you’ve bought furniture, and all of this financial entanglement....

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Good Relationship Habits To Start Now

Bella Breakdown Habits are hard to break, this is true for both good and bad habits. So it is important, especially in relationships, to create good habits. Marriage Counselors suggests developing this good habits to make your way to a successful relationship. 1. Get Good Sleep Just like everything else, if you’re exhausted, you’re not at your best and you’re likely irritated. You will take this behavior out on your partner. So make it a point to get good sleep. 2. Ask For What You Want Do this, but don’t blame your partner for not getting it. You need...

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Rules To Avoiding A Toxic Relationship

Bella Breakdown I remember in my first relationship feeling as though my partner’s jealous and controlling behavior was a sign of love, even if my intuition was telling me to run at every second. You might have found yourself in multiple toxic relationships. They do come in different packages, and don’t always look the same. So it is important to know some ground rules so you can avoid getting yourself into a toxic relationship. 1. If you are unhappy, leave. That nagging feeling that all of the bad is outweighing the good is not going to go away. So...

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Do You Have A Jealous Partner?

Bella Breakdown Feelings of jealousy, not even in relationships, but just life in general are totally common. How you decide to act on those feelings though, is a totally different story. In life, you can use jealousy to fuel your career and put you ahead. However, fueled jealousy in a relationship has the potential to be really damaging. Jealous partners can come off as controlling, paranoid, and needy. We run into a large problem today with social media and smart phones. Jealous people are likely to snoop through through their partner’s phone, and get caught down a rabbit hole...

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