Things To Know Before You Settle Down

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I think most of us have dreamed about finally finding our person that we want to spend the rest of our lives with. It’s such a special notion, and we all want someone that is the perfect mix or romantic and our best friend. However, some of us have a tendency to settle just so we can settle down. There are several important things that you should know before deciding that you want to potentially be in a relationship with someone.

1. Ask them what they are looking for. Some people aren’t dating to find a relationship. Some people never want to get married, some don’t want kids. Although you don’t want to bombard someone, it is important to be on the same page when it comes to long term goals.

2. Is this potential partner happy with their life? An unsettled, unhappy person can be cause for a tumultuous relationship.

3. Does this person have any major plans for the future? Such as long term travel, possibly moving, etc.

4. What do they spend their weekends, specifically their Sundays, doing? Are they active, are they going out, are they lazy? This gives you a pretty good idea of who the person is when they’re not at their very best on a date.

Author: Haley DePass

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