Real Talk: 5 Biggest Lies Women Tell Themselves About Men

Bella Breakdown

Alright Bellas, let’s admit it, when your man gives an excuse not to see you sometimes we like to cover it up with lies that we tell ourselves to make us feel better about the situation. Sometimes we just don’t like to face reality and that’s okay sometimes but when it becomes a habit that’s when you know you have to face the truth, even though it may hurt. However, today we are going to break down for you the 5 biggest lies that women tell themselves about men. If you happen to fall into one of these categories Bella’s don’t be ashamed because we have all been there and done that and some of us way too many times.

1. He’s Just Busy At work

We have all heard it at one point or another, he’s just too busy at work or he’s busy with his friends and although that may be true sometimes it comes a time when you have to face reality. Bottom line ladies is if you like someone and want to be with them you will always find time. No one is EVER too busy to never see you.

2. I Can Change Him

When getting a new man with old habits we all like to think I like most of him but I can change the rest. Well, the truth is Bella’s you cant teach old dog new tricks. Don’t rely on the fact that you think you are going to be able to change him because for some people that’s true but for others it will never happen especially when they are older and more set in their ways.

3. I Will Nab This Bachelor

In some situations it is absolutely possible to nab the man who has committed himself to being a bachelor but for others it’s a bit harder. Some women like to think if I change this or that or pretend that I’m into sports he will fall for me and leave the life he has always lived. The truth is that when he is ready to give up being a bachelor then he will. Let him make that decision.

4. If I Change Myself He Will Like Me Better

One of the most important rules women should follow when looking for a man is to never change themselves. Some people think if I get a haircut or sit through a football game while you wish you were anywhere else is probably not the best solution. Change is good but don’t pretend to be something that you’re not because it will land you with the wrong type of person.

5. He’ll Never Cheat Or Lie To Me

Bella’s this is the most important lie out of all five of them so listen closely! If your man has cheated before or has lied to you or someone else in the past there is a very very very good chance that he is going to do it again and if he hasn’t done it already then he is going to do it to you. We all like to think no he’s changed or no he would never but don’t be fooled!!