Oh No, More Dating Terms

Bella Breakdown Just in case you didn’t hate dating in 2018 enough, I have a couple of new dating terms for you. I know, I know, you probably can’t handle anymore. But these ones might be good to know, especially because they could very well be happening to you. And honestly, you might want to immediately ditch whoever you’re dating once you find out what these new terms mean. 1. Orbiting This is the person who you might have had a couple of dates with, however they aren’t actually contacting you to hang out again. Instead, they’re watching your...

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Ultimatums That Benefit The Relationship

Bella Breakdown We have believed for a long time, that ultimatums in relationships are a death wish; that it is a sign things are coming to an end. It seems that it is time to dump that notion. Ultimatums, if presented in the appropriate manner can actually help a relationship. Ultimatums should be utilized to stop behavior you will not tolerate in a relationship. If your partner is having jealous, controlling, and just generally bad behavior, an ultimatum can be appropriate to open a discussion about how that behavior will not be tolerated. It is important that when you...

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Could You Be More In Love?

Bella Breakdown Love is an intoxicating feeling. Being in love and having someone love you right back can be one of the most uplifting feelings in the world. Just when you think you couldn’t love your partner any more than you do right now, they do something that makes you fall even deeper. But, have you ever wondered if there was something more you could do with your partner to help you fall deeper in love? Well, there is! There are I should say. 1. Spend Your Downtime With Them Spending any free time you have with your partner...

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Things That Make You A Good Partner

Bella Breakdown A lot of people swear that they are a good boyfriend or girlfriend. It becomes a mean of reasoning when people are dating. “But I’m the best girlfriend!”, or “I know I’m boyfriend material”. But, are we really sure we’re the great partners we say we are? There are ways to know if you’re a good partner in a relationship. 1. You have a life When you have your own life, and you’re making room for someone else, that’s a good sign you’ll be a good partner. For one, you are putting aside some of your own...

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Defining the Relationship

Bella Breakdown Let’s just say it how it is, dating is really freaking weird these days. We have the power to make virtual connections in the palm of our hands. We talk to people in depth that we never actually meet. If you do actually get to the point of having a face-to-face interaction, you’re then at the mercy of someone eventually ghosting you, or bread-crumbing you, or whatever weird term we’ve come up with to define poor human behavior. Now let’s say you’ve actually been seeing someone on a consistent basis, you’ve expressed in multiple ways that you...

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