Love or Lust?

Bella Breakdown The first few weeks and months of dating someone new is absolutely intoxicating. You are excited at every first with one another, every little bit of contact, and just getting to know each other. The sex is exciting, and your heart leaps when you see their name on your phone. You could be overwhelmed by feelings of love… or is it lust? Sometimes it is really difficult to tell if that new romance is budding with love, or just flaming with lust. There are a few ways to know if it is in fact love. If you...

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Be Aware of These Bad Signs In Your Relationship

Bella Breakdown No two people in a relationship get along perfectly. Everyone has differences, so arguments may occur. But how do you know if you are having arguments, or if your fights are a sign of a worse problem? A lot of people enter into an emotionally abusive relationship and don’t even realize it. There are some signs that you need to pay attention to if you feel as though something isn’t right about your relationship. 1. You Are Always Apologizing Sure, we know when we screw up, and it is super important to apologize for those screw ups....

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Find A Workout Buddy

Bella Breakdown Getting out to get exercise, or getting to the gym can be a battle in and of itself. Let alone actually taking the time to get a move on and workout. Maybe you have been trying to switch up your workout routine, or you’re changing up the scenery to get more motivated in your workout? Well, there might be one great way to get motivated and stay fit, and that is to get a workout buddy. Having a workout buddy will help for a number of reasons: 1. Socializing You won’t be as focused on the fact...

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Love On A Plane

Bella Breakdown If someone asked you right now, where the best place to find love was, you would most like answer “online”. It is just the way we meet people now. You might also think that after a dating app, that work, school, or even at a bar would be another good place to meet people. However, have you thought that you could very well meet the love of your life on a plane? An HSBC survey asked 5,000 travelers about how they met their spouse, and 1 out of 50 said they met their partner on a plane....

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On Again, Off Again

Bella Breakdown It is definitely possible that romantic comedies, and television couples, especially Ross and Rachel, have made us believe that the on again, off again relationship is something that is cute or romantic. The fact of the matter is breaking up and making up actually isn’t all that cute, in fact it could be really damaging to our psyches. People who are involved in on-off again relationships are more likely to suffer from mental health issues such as depression and anxiety. Studies have also shown that people who keep breaking up and getting back together with the same...

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