Ultimatums That Benefit The Relationship

Bella Breakdown We have believed for a long time, that ultimatums in relationships are a death wish; that it is a sign things are coming to an end. It seems that it is time to dump that notion. Ultimatums, if presented in the appropriate manner can actually help a relationship. Ultimatums should be utilized to stop behavior you will not tolerate in a relationship. If your partner is having jealous, controlling, and just generally bad behavior, an ultimatum can be appropriate to open a discussion about how that behavior will not be tolerated. It is important that when you...

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Could You Be More In Love?

Bella Breakdown Love is an intoxicating feeling. Being in love and having someone love you right back can be one of the most uplifting feelings in the world. Just when you think you couldn’t love your partner any more than you do right now, they do something that makes you fall even deeper. But, have you ever wondered if there was something more you could do with your partner to help you fall deeper in love? Well, there is! There are I should say. 1. Spend Your Downtime With Them Spending any free time you have with your partner...

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Things That Make You A Good Partner

Bella Breakdown A lot of people swear that they are a good boyfriend or girlfriend. It becomes a mean of reasoning when people are dating. “But I’m the best girlfriend!”, or “I know I’m boyfriend material”. But, are we really sure we’re the great partners we say we are? There are ways to know if you’re a good partner in a relationship. 1. You have a life When you have your own life, and you’re making room for someone else, that’s a good sign you’ll be a good partner. For one, you are putting aside some of your own...

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Getting Back In the Game

Bella Breakdown Relationships end and new ones begin. It’s a constant cycle of life, until you’ve found a romantic relationship that stands the test of time. The time in between those relationships are extremely crucial periods. These are the periods of time when you should be healing and participating in some self-reflection. Without ample time and focusing on yourself, you could pre-maturely enter a relationship and end up making the same mistakes. How will you know when you’re truly ready to enter a relationship again? 1. It’ll be about the person, not what they represent. You’ll know it’s the...

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We See You, New Dad

Bella Breakdown New moms definitely get a lot of attention, as they should. Hello, they just grew and birthed an entire human being, and they feed them. From their own bodies! However, let us not forget that with every new mom, there’s a new dad waiting in the wings for when they can finally be of use. The new dad, especially the new modern dad, knows that he is equally as much of a parent as the mother of his child is. Dads know that they have a very large role to play in this child’s life. It’s a...

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