Being A Good Girlfriend Might Not Be What You Think

Bella Breakdown You might have a certain idea of what it takes to be a good girlfriend, I mean other than having a great partner to support and complement you. To me personally, I feel as though being supportive, kind, and baking cookies is always a great way to go. Apparently some men think differently about what they want to see in their partners. A recent survey asked men what they like in a girlfriend and their answers were… interesting to say the least. One man described how he would prefer to have an overly jealous girlfriend. One that...

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Breakups Down To A Science

Bella Breakdown It’s the day after you’ve been dumped. You are probably wondering how in the world you are going to get over this? You might spend time with friends, drink too much, or you might just eat or not eat. You might lie in bed all day. You might tear up pictures and every memory of them. And you’re probably going to cry. That’s pretty natural. But there is actually a scientific way to get over your breakup somewhat quickly and effectively. Scientists asked certain people to view their ex in a negative light. They wanted the individuals...

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Love or Lust?

Bella Breakdown The first few weeks and months of dating someone new is absolutely intoxicating. You are excited at every first with one another, every little bit of contact, and just getting to know each other. The sex is exciting, and your heart leaps when you see their name on your phone. You could be overwhelmed by feelings of love… or is it lust? Sometimes it is really difficult to tell if that new romance is budding with love, or just flaming with lust. There are a few ways to know if it is in fact love. If you...

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Relationship Advice You Shouldn’t Listen To

Bella Breakdown When we are experiencing issues in our relationships, we can’t help but turn to our friends, families, therapists, and sometimes even perfect strangers to help us navigate difficulties with our significant others. A lot of times, they give us really wonderful advice that is ultimately very helpful. However, there are certain pieces of advice that you should not listen to when it comes to your relationship. 1. You’ll Find Your Perfect Match You might find someone who treats you better than your last relationship, but it’s unrealistic to call someone your perfect match. Everyone has differences, and...

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Things To Consider Before Moving In

Bella Breakdown Every relationship experiences milestones. The first time you meet each others friends and families, the first time you say “I love you”. One key milestone you and your partner might reach is moving in together. This is a really big move. You are upping the intimacy in a major way. Just like any other milestone you hit in your relationship, it is definitely important to consider some things before you and your partner take the plunge and share an address. 1. Observe their current habits. If you are at your partner’s place, check out what kind of...

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